How to Prepare for Divorce: A Guide by Hembree Bell Law, Austin, Texas

Divorce is a major life decision, and preparing for it can feel overwhelming. At Hembree Bell Law, we understand the complexities involved and are here to guide you every step of the way. Whether you're a busy parent, a business owner, or someone juggling various responsibilities, this guide will help you navigate the process with confidence.

Step 1: Make a Firm Decision

The first and most crucial step is making the decision to get divorced. This isn't a decision to be taken lightly or made on a whim. It requires deep introspection and a firm resolve. If you're watching this video, chances are you've already reached this decision, understanding that it's the best move for you and your family.

Step 2: Get Your Financial House in Order

Gather Important Documents

Once you've decided to move forward, it's time to get organized. Start by gathering all essential financial documents. These include:

• Tax returns for the past few years

• Deeds and titles to properties and vehicles

• Business formation documents and operating agreements

• Bank statements (checking, savings, business accounts)

• Credit card statements

• Employment documents, including restricted stock awards and other benefits

Organize Securely

Create a new email address and a Google Drive in incognito mode on your computer. Save all these documents securely in this new drive, naming them clearly with dates and descriptions (e.g., "2024-01-01 Chase Bank Statement"). This organization will save you time and money in the long run.

Step 3: Consider Your Goals

Think about what you want out of the divorce. While legal counsel will help you set realistic expectations, it's essential to identify your non-negotiables and deal-breakers. This might include:

• Keeping your business out of the divorce proceedings

• Relocating to a new area

• Ensuring financial stability post-divorce

By outlining your goals early, you'll be better prepared to communicate them to your legal team.

Step 4: Plan for Your Future

Financial Planning

Divorce changes many aspects of your life, including your financial situation. Consider how you'll manage your finances post-divorce. Will you be able to afford your current home or need to find a new place? What about health insurance and other essential expenses?

Access to Resources

Ensure you have access to funds to cover legal fees and other expenses. This might mean setting up a credit card or securing access to shared marital funds.

Create a Support System

Divorce can be emotionally challenging. Surround yourself with supportive friends, family, and professionals such as therapists or counselors. A robust support system will help you stay grounded and focused during this difficult time.

Step 5: Clean Up Your Social Media

Be mindful of what you post on social media. Avoid posting negative comments about your spouse or details about your divorce. Instead, use this time to present yourself positively, which can be crucial if your social media activity is scrutinized during the divorce process.

Step 6: Be Mom or Dad of the Year

If you have children, it's crucial to demonstrate your commitment to their well-being. This means being actively involved in their lives, attending school events, and taking care of their needs. If you’re usually away for work, try to be present more often to show the court your involvement and dedication.

Step 7: Work on Your Mindset

A positive mindset can significantly impact the divorce process. Engage in activities that promote personal growth and well-being, such as meditation, reading, or listening to uplifting podcasts. This proactive approach can make the divorce process smoother and help you emerge stronger.

Final Thoughts

Preparing for divorce is not something you can do overnight. Ideally, you should start these steps six months to a year before filing. However, if you're caught off guard, prioritize these steps to navigate the process more effectively. At Hembree Bell Law, we strive to make the divorce process as smooth and cost-effective as possible. Our team in Austin, Texas, is here to support you with expert legal advice and compassionate guidance. Contact us today for a free case evaluation and take the first step towards a new beginning.